How To Live and Retire At a Young Age

My husband an I started out on a semi retirement journey two years ago. My husband sold his business, and his home. I quit my full time job, but before I did that, I became a certified yoga teacher taking classes with a teacher in the evening. We where living a face paced lifestyle and we knew this is not what we wanted for the second part of our life. We wanted to be able to enjoy life as well as bringing in an income.

Once he sold the house we decided to upgrade the 29 foot trailer that we already had to a 42 foot mobile home. As this was going to be our permanent residency for six months. Our goal was to buy a home in Florida, to be able to live there for six months while it was winter in Canada.

We had a goal in mind and we had a set date to head to Florida to look for our winter home A year ago. We borrowed my dads Florida home while they were still in Canada, as we left the end of September and most snow birds don’t head down until October and November. We packed up our car and our dog with what all we thought we would need to stay for six months. If we by chance had been able to buy. We knew some of the ways about buying as we knew others who had purchased homes in Florida and we also had a back up plan if we did not find anything, that we had a suite booked in Myrtle Beach South Carolina for the rest of that winter.

We had been looking online for a few months and we knew what we wanted to spend. Cost of buying the place and lot rent in a 55 plus community was our choice. We also knew ahead of time that we would have loved to be on the ocean but we knew financially we would most likely would be looking inland.

When we arrived in Florida after driving straight threw we began to make arrangements to see homes that we liked in our areas. When we drove up to the place we ended up buying we both looked at each other and said we would never live this far out or this area. It was fields of animals and we thought we were back home in the country. What we seen was what I was looking for. inside was needing work but the outside and the community was really nice and well kept and had all the amenities that we we looking for, other than the beach.

We went back to my dads place and looked around at other places. We then decided to go back and take another look. this time we looked past the famers fields. We noticed that the place was not even five minutes away from a grocery store and a few minutes away from all amenities. It was a town that was not as busy as Tampa, Orlando Or Clearwater. We liked that as in Canada we are also in a very small town.

From the time we looked at the home to purchasing and getting the keys was a total of 4 days, yes your read that right. 4 days. the one thing was to our advantage was that it was already empty. We had to furnish this as well and that was another thing we needed to take in to account. We had a full 8×10 storage unit back in Canada, so do we rent a truck and bring it all down her or do we buy from Florida. What we found out was that here in Florida you can buy very good used furniture for reasonably cheap. Which is what we did. We decided to buy two new beds as buying used was not for us. It was cheaper for us to buy a full two bedroom and Florida room than it was for us to rent a truck and bring our stuff down from Canada. This was one of the ways we saved a lot of money.

Your probably asking, well how do you live cheap? I’m under 50 years old and my husband is just under 55. We are very grateful that they let us into a 55 plus community. Most all parks have an 80/20 rule. 80 % has to be over 55 and 20% can be under.

Some people may think that we sit around and drink by the pool here in Florida. What we actually do is live on our lap tops and we make time to go to the pool when its nice. We publish books and coming up with content for these books takes hours depending on what we are making. We also spend time working on our websites, I’m busy making new jewelry and coming up with new jewelry designs. I also work on up coming workshops and yoga retreats for yoga and in these trying times how can we keep everyone safe. As well as keeping our followers and customers happy by working the social media and advertising our businesses and products. This does not happen quickly.

We love what we do, its a labor of love. Yes we get to live in the sunny south for 6 months but we are not sitting back doing nothing everyday.

How do I Make An Income?

I do yoga online ~

I have a Jewelry Line that I sell on Etsy

When I’m back home I also work at a small store to keep me busy and it helps to put away some funds for the winter.

Published Author/ I’m also in the mist of writing the first book of a murder mystery novel series. I hope to have the writing part done soon. It is a lot slower process than I thought it would be.

What does my Husband Do?

Is a Financial adviser for businesses all around the world.

My Husband has made 135 different types of books under Sand T Publishing.

These books include:

Financial these are available for e readers and paper back

Log books example diving, travel, fishing, to name a couple

Coloring books

We also shop where prices are great, we have been lucky to find the best deals around town. Down here in Florida they have a lot of buy one get one deals, or buy 4/5 for 5 dollars or ten dollars. We find that by doing this we are able to not only stock up but we are able to save money.

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For example today we went shopping and we bought a lot of stuff for only $72.00 when they rang up the total we had saved $35.00. This is a huge way to save. All of this below was $72.00 4 cases of pop for $11.00, 2 jugs of milk, two 12 packages of toilet paper these where BOGO, 2 huge packages of chicken legs they where BOGO, cans of vegetables BOGO. all of this back in Canada would have been over $100.00.

If you think you are too young to semi retired or fully retire. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it. We are not on this earth forever, we are only here for a short time. If you have dreams of retiring early and your not sure how to do this and would love to, please click the link above in my husbands information and he can guide you along the way or clink on the amazon link he has produce some amazing books on great financial advice.

I hope you enjoyed my blog today, I also would like to point out that there are some hurdles along the way as well, but most of the journey has been easy.

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Stay Calm Jewelry

A little bit about the lady behind the designs. I’ve always had a flare for Style, Design and Great Jewelry and Fashion. I hope to design pieces that are natural with a flare for elegance but cost Effective for all the beautiful people in your life or yourself. I will also be looking to design beautiful pieces for your wedding day for all your special ladies and a beautiful piece for just you.

I Have traveled to many Caribbean Islands, across Canada and the United States. It is where I love rejuvenating my mind, body, and soul. It is where I have done some of my best meditation, and where I find my authentic self. This is where I get my inspiration for the custom pieces.

I am also a Certified Yoga Teacher and Instructor And a Published Author. Links will be at the bottom of the page.

The Designer and Owner is Tonia Aldworth

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My Book Was Published

Keep track of your Yoga Journey. This book contains areas on each page where you can write your own inspirational quotes, Set goals for the day or record your favorite quotes and sayings, that you came across that you liked on your journey. In the diary section of the page, you can keep a log of your yoga journey, or even your life journey. In the yoga poses section. The Yoga Journey book has many uses and is a must for any yoga practitioners of all levels the size is 6 x 9 inches.

Here is the link on Amazon.

I hope you enjoy your new book.

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Can You Still Do Yoga If You Have Scoliosis

What is Scoliosis?

Scoliosis is a sideways curvature of the spine that occurs most often during the growth spurt just before puberty. While scoliosis can be caused by conditions such as cerebral palsy and muscular dystrophy, the cause of most scoliosis is unknown. About 3% of adolescents have scoliosis.

Comparing normal curves in spine with scoliosis

Most cases of scoliosis are mild, but some spine deformities continue to get more severe as children grow. Severe scoliosis can be disabling. An especially severe spinal curve can reduce the amount of space within the chest, making it difficult for the lungs to function properly.


What is Roto Scoliosis?

Rotoscoliosis is a term most often used to describe a severe form of scoliosis in which the spine not only curves to the side (as is normal with scoliosis), but the curvature is also associated with a strong degree of rotation.

Two weeks Ago I found Out I have Roto Scoliosis? I knew I had scoliosis. I woke up one morning and had sever pain in my back that went up my back and down my leg when I put my foot down. I had to have a back X-ray to find the cause..

The doctor informed me that I had Roto Scoliosis with muscle spasms.

I was glad we found the problem but now I have to find cause of it. I now have to have an MRI to determine the cause of the pain. Is it a pinched nerve or is it a herniated disk.

Not knowing the cause has got me wondering if I’m able to still do yoga. My hope was to find out the reason so that I could do some poses to help ease the strain on my back.

When looking for ways to manage scoliosis, many people turn to physical activity. One form of movement that’s gained a lot of followers in the scoliosis community is yoga.

Why yoga is beneficial for scoliosis

Yoga can be very helpful for those with scoliosis, particularly given the combination of flexibility and core stabilization needed to perform yoga poses properly.

Potential benefits of yoga for scoliosis

stretch areas tightened by spinal curvature

strengthen weakened areas affected by the spine’s position

strengthen the core overall

pain management

improve mobility and flexibility

Introducing Yoga

Know your scoliosis type

If you’re interested in trying yoga to reduce pain and correct your curve

maintain or improve spinal position.

“In other words, they need to picture which way their curve goes from behind and understand the rotation as well because if they don’t know their curve, they won’t understand how to do the poses to correct the curve.

After reading up more on what I have been told I have, I will be able to continue my yoga journey, it will just look a little different than what I had originally planned. That alright as life is a journey and things never stay the same, we are constantly evolving and changing along the way.

I hope if you know of anyone who has Scoliosis that they share this information with them as I know it always great to know when we are diagnosed with something that its never the end its just the beginning of a new chapter.

Tonia Aldworth

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Life will always throw you a curve ball, the question is will you be ready, will you have the glove to catch whatever it throws at you? Will you be able to handle it?

The chances are that you may think you can’t but in reality you have the courage and the knowledge to stand strong and be a warrior. You are never alone even though you may feel that way.

Whether or not you believe in a higher God or not you are not alone. We always walk along in life with family or friends, and when things get tough and rough who do you count on.

As we get older we know who we can count on. Or true friends and family will be there for you whether you have known them your whole life or just met them. Some of my best friends I have only known for a few years, They would be there in the middle of the night if i was stranded.

So my question or thought for today is Who can you count on? Let them know, thank them when you see them. Everyone wants to feel like they are special.

Tonia Aldworth

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A Letter To My 16 Year Old Self

If I could send a letter back in time, I would send it to my sixteen year old self. I would make sure she knew that there is no reason to worry or fret over the little things that are going on in her life at that time.

Dear Beautiful Young Lady:

I’m writing you from the future, I want you to know that you will be ok, that things work out in the end, how do I know this? Because I’am you but I’m now 48 years old in a couple of days. All the things your parents say and all the advice they give you, listen because they were right. Time does heal all heart ache, it heals all pain, you never forget but it becomes easier. The boy your upset over, well he’s moved on and so do you. The girls who bullied you well they ended up being bullied and realized that they got hurt too. The girlfriends that you have now may or may not be there in your future but they were put there for a reason you will see.

The friend or family member that passes away in your future, you will learn from them. It will shape you into the lady you will become.
I cant tell you everything as you will not be able to live and learn from your mistakes or you success’s. I wish that I could but then it wouldn’t be called your future. But let me just say this you will have fun, you will love and you will get hurt and you will be sad and you will be over joyed, but you will live a beautiful life, with beautiful friends and family in it. Love your self as only you know how to do that, You can not tell or show anyone how to, and like your self as if you do not like your self no one else can.
Another piece of advice that was given to me, learn to like your self and learn to love being alone. Its the best gift. if you do not love yourself how can to let anyone else love you.

The last piece of advice, be yourself, try not to be anyone else as you are born to shine so if your trying to shine under another ones light you will be in the shadow instead of shining yourself. your the best one to be yourself.
Enjoy your life for its the ride of a life time and you only get one shot at it, Love, live and laugh often. and do not forget friends and boyfriends come and go but family last forever.

From ~ The Future Older Lady

So my question to others is what would you tell your younger self

Shaman Stones ~ Healing Stones ~ Moqui Marbles

These Rocks Often Come In Pairs~ They Represent a Record of How Water Moved Rock Millions Of Years Ago, Its a Lovely metaphor for Marriage and True Partnership ~ Together You Can Move Mountains

When my husband and I Got married a dear friend of mine gave us these Rocks for a gift, I absolutely Love them. They are the Brown Balls ~ Moqui Marbles

Shaman stones are high energy stones and are powerful allies to have for personal path workings and for healing. In personal matters the stones can connect the shaman with earth energies. They are powerful in grounding and energies.

Moqui Marbles come from the Indians and means faithful favorite. They are also called Shamans stones because they were used by the Shamans as healing stones and still are. …Moqui balls are a together a couple, one is a male, the other female

The moqui marbles are no more than 25 million years old — a sharp contrast to the 190-million-year-old Navajo Sandstone.

The stones are powerful protectors, they can absorb negative energy and transform it in to positive useful energy. If one stone is placed at the crown and another is placed on the soles of the feet, the shaman stones can purify and normalize the flow of chakra energies in the one being treated. The stones seem to have a positive effect on any area they are placed over. You can use the stones on your third eye to activate clairvoyance, and distant events visions, both past and future.

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You Can Only Loose What You Cling Too~ Buddha

Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.”– Dalai Lama

Like Trees and flowers Growth is always happening in your life. Growth is a great thing.

No matter how much we want things to stay the same, life is all about change. Sometimes change is for the better, and sometimes it’s not.

But no matter why things are changing, we need to be able to Let Go and move on Whether it’s the death of a loved one, a painful breakup, a business failure, or a treacherous betrayal, holding onto past pain and resentment will only hold you back.

When it comes to YOGA, we are always changing that’s what yoga is, Changing and evolving. Being able to stretch a little further, meditate a little deeper. Learning to be with yourself. Change is an amazing thing.

When you feel stuck mentally, it’s impossible to move ahead, … take that as a sign to move on to the next stage of growth in your life.

“Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go but rather learning to start over.”– Nicole Sobon

“When the world is at your back, and your heart is at your feet…the best way to go on is to just “be”.”– Jennifer Varnador

“When you let go, you are truly free.”– Unknown

“We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.”– Walt Disney

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Embracing Change

It is hard to change, especially when we get attached to the way things are, and the way we have always done it,

The struggle with accepting change is tied to attachment, Attachment to the ease and comfort of how things are done and how we have always done it. Letting go of attachment is a key to teaching yoga. Its is good to remember that when we cling to something that no longer works. We will never move forward and that what wants to come to us is so great if we just let go.

So what is the fear all about, going into the new normal?

Why is there such a back lash of people not wanting wear masks in stores and where you cant physically stay 6 feet apart?

The struggle should not be so hard, why is it that you feel you should not wear a mask to protect yourself and others?

Is it because you have been told that you have to as its now mandatory? Do you feel your rights have been taken away?

Do you feel like you cant breathe in them?

Do you feel you will look silly in the mask?

These are really important questions to think about.

The mask is not just to help you, but it also helps others around you.

Maybe once you realize its not that big of a deal to wear the mask while shopping or where you are not able to be 6 feet apart, you will embrace the new change, yes its not that fun to wear one, (Actually who thought they would ever be able to go into a bank with a mask on) but if we can put a positive out look onto it, then we may be able to learn to embrace the new normal that we are now faced with. Ladies we can also buy masks to match our clothes.

Why is it so hard for people to social distance to save others and yourself from Covid 19? I know for myself and my husband we haven’t been really affected with having to social distance. The only thing for us is our businesses have been affected. I have had to cancel some up coming Yoga Retreats, and some in person workshops, but I have moved my things to online. My husband has been doing conferences and meeting vie the internet, appose to in person.

As for hanging out with family and friends it was hard when had to isolate after traveling back home from our Florida home to Canada after already being away from family and friends for six months.

We got threw it and came out the other side with new ways to take our businesses in a new direction.

Of course we are nervous about how our businesses will thrive, but we are embracing the new normal.

For me the workshops will look a lot different, they will be virtual. Is it the best way, no not at all as being in person is always better, but we will be learning as we go.

It is hard to change, especially when we get attached to the way things are, and the way we have always done it.

My hope is that we can all be respectful of what other peoples views are and lets embrace this new normal that we have been given in these trying times. I believe that most people are good and I hope that we will come out the other side stronger and more caring to thy neighbor.

Here is s link to pick up some really neat masks

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Have a Safe and Happy Summer.

Tonia Aldworth


2020 has been a trying time for a lot of people. With the Covid-19 Virus and people not being able to work or visit family and friends. Students being taught from home virtually, businesses struggling and some even closing there doors for good.  There is so many issues and struggles to even mention. Now is a time to really take the time to help yourself threw these times of trouble. Below I have posted 5 Asana Poses (yoga poses) to help you relax. Always remember to breathe slowly while doing these. It calms your heart and relaxes your body.

Meditation and mindfulness are often hailed as the keys to stress-free living. But what exactly do these practices look like in regards to self care?

Meditation is simply getting in touch with one’s self. Creating space and time to sit and focus on your breath is scientifically proven to deactivate the stress response and calm the nervous system. Studies have shown that meditation can ease anxiety and depression and increase resilience against stress.

Taking a few deep breaths, unclenching your jaw, and allowing your shoulders to fall away from your ears can halt daily stressors and undo the snowball effect of anxiety. Also taking time to tune into your surroundings to live more mindfully can help you live in the moment and release worry about the future.

To practice mindfulness, all you have to do is focus on what you are doing in that moment: washing the dishes, driving, walking, interacting with others, even breathing. Giving each task your full attention allows you to be present, keeping anxious thoughts at bay,”

In turn, we can stop the persistent cycle of rushing and allow ourselves to focus on the present moment. From there, we can better direct our energy and attention to the task at hand.

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Some of the Asana Poses that help with Anxiety and stress are:

Seated Spinal Twist/ Marichyasana ~ Constipation, Digestive problems, Asthma, Fatigue, Lower back pain,Sciatica, Menstrual discomfort


Happy Baby/ Ananda Balasana~ Releases the low back, lengthens and realigns the spine, strengthens the legs and opens the hips


Child’s Pose/ Balasana~ Relaxes the spine and abdomen. Stretches the lower back and ankles. Helps with digestion and elimination


Legs Up In The Air/ Candle Pose/ Viparita Karani~ Reversed perspective, relaxing for the heart because gravity pulls blood back instead of heart having to work hard to do it.


Easy Pose/ Sukhasana~ Calms the brain, strengthens the back, stretches the knees and ankles

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These are just a few helpful and Easy poses that will help with stress and anxiety.

If you take some time each day to try some or all of these poses it can benefit in all areas of your life.

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