Do you believe in soul mates? Do you believe that there is some one, some where out there in this world that is meant to be with just you? Do you think that the one you’re with is your soul mate? The question is, how do you know? When will you know, does everyone have a soul mate or do some people pick a mate based of common ground, because they don’t believe they will find their soul mate so they settle.
How do you know that’s the one? The one true love of your life. What about the people who have been married more than once, they thought at one time in their relationship that their partner was the one and they end up not being the one. Were they soul mates or was it a time in passing until the one finally came.
Relationships are not easy and many struggle with finding the ONE. The question is though what is the ONE, is it the one you can not live without, is it the one who you are completely on the same page with, your always in sync. Your deeply madly in love. Is that what your soul mate is to feel like, you can’t live with out them.
Can you have more that one soul mate threw out your life, as we change and want different things as we age and mature our tastes our likes and dislikes change, what we want out of life changes. I know for certain I’m not the same woman I was when I was twenty. And I’m not the same person I was when I was thirty. So what we are looking for in a spouse changes as well. Our experiences also change what our wants are and how we want to live our life. What we are willing to sacrifice in a relationship and what we will not tolerate.
I look back on my past and think I can only say there was one person who I could truly say would have been my soul mate, but for unforeseen circumstances we had not been able to see threw the relationship. I believe if he was still here to this day he and I would still be happily married, all these years later. He passed away when we were just teenagers, he had just graduated High school but didn’t even make it to his graduation. He was a great man who knew me inside and out, he was the man who I could see having a long life with.
I’m currently very happy in my life, I have a great family who I care for deeply and friends who I may not see all the time but when we do we can pick up where we left off.
I believe men and woman can be friends with out any attachments. I have many male friends, some I have known since grade school.
Will I find my soul mate, maybe some day but, for now I will continue to live my life with my dog and live with no regrets.
SO my question is, Do you belive you found your soul mate?